Stepparent Adoption Process
If you are seeking to legally adopt the child(ren) of your spouse, you are not alone.
Adoption by a stepparent is the most common form of adoption. However that unfortunately doesn’t mean it is uncomplicated. While each case is unique, most adoptions follow these steps:
Step 1: File Notice and Petition
We file a notice of plan for adoption and, if necessary, a petition to terminate parental rights.
Step 2: Establish Child’s Eligibility
The court must determine that parental rights have been legally terminated or surrendered.
Step 3: File Petition for Adoption
This petition outlines:
Facts supporting adoption
Request to establish legal parent-child relationship
Possible name change
Whether the child qualifies under the Indian Child Welfare Act (which may require tribal notice)
Step 4: Complete Required Documentation
Documents may include:
Birth certificate
Consent forms
Termination orders
Custody/visitation orders
Criminal background checks
Home study (if required, generally there is an exception in a stepparent adoption)
Medical and social history
Indian Child Welfare Act notice (if applicable)
Affidavits and disclosures required by statute
Step 5: Final Hearing
At the final hearing:
The judge reviews documentation
The petitioner answers statutory questions
The court ensures all legal requirements are satisfied
Step 6: Final Decree of Adoption
Once approved, the court issues a final decree. The adoption becomes permanent.
Legal Effects of Stepparent Adoption in Oklahoma
Under Oklahoma law, the adoption of a stepchild confers onto the stepparent all the rights and responsibilities of a birth parent - you will have the same rights under the law as if you were the child's natural parent. In addition to the rights regarding custody and parental decision-making that a stepparent will gain, there is also a financial responsibility that attaches as well.
As an adoptive stepparent, you will be charged with providing for the child's emotional, mental, physical, social, educational, and financial needs. The child will also inherit from you as if they were your own natural child.

