Stepparent Adoption Process

If you are seeking to legally adopt the child(ren) of your spouse, you are not alone. 

Adoption by a stepparent is the most common form of adoption. However that unfortunately doesn’t mean it is uncomplicated. While each case is unique, most adoptions follow these steps:

Step 1: File Notice and Petition

We file a notice of plan for adoption and, if necessary, a petition to terminate parental rights.

Step 2: Establish Child’s Eligibility

The court must determine that parental rights have been legally terminated or surrendered.

Step 3: File Petition for Adoption

This petition outlines:

  • Facts supporting adoption

  • Request to establish legal parent-child relationship

  • Possible name change

  • Whether the child qualifies under the Indian Child Welfare Act (which may require tribal notice)

Step 4: Complete Required Documentation

Documents may include:

  • Birth certificate

  • Consent forms

  • Termination orders

  • Custody/visitation orders

  • Criminal background checks

  • Home study (if required, generally there is an exception in a stepparent adoption)

  • Medical and social history

  • Indian Child Welfare Act notice (if applicable)

  • Affidavits and disclosures required by statute

Step 5: Final Hearing

At the final hearing:

  • The judge reviews documentation

  • The petitioner answers statutory questions

  • The court ensures all legal requirements are satisfied

Step 6: Final Decree of Adoption

Once approved, the court issues a final decree. The adoption becomes permanent.



 Legal Effects of Stepparent Adoption in Oklahoma

Under Oklahoma law, the adoption of a stepchild confers onto the stepparent all the rights and responsibilities of a birth parent - you will have the same rights under the law as if you were the child's natural parent. In addition to the rights regarding custody and parental decision-making that a stepparent will gain, there is also a financial responsibility that attaches as well.

As an adoptive stepparent, you will be charged with providing for the child's emotional, mental, physical, social, educational, and financial needs. The child will also inherit from you as if they were your own natural child.